Your Interfaith Wedding

with Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway

At the Lin Yun Temple

Articles and Inspiration from Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway

Your Wedding Ceremony
Today's wedding ceremonies can be creative, fun and very personal.
To have the perfect ceremony, find the right officiant.
When parents reject your selection of mate.
What you need to know about getting your license in NYC
Take the stress out of vow writing
Tips for an easy journey down the aisle
Many cultures bless the hands of bride and groom
Remembering the ones who have passed on
However you decide to do it on the big day, have fun practicing.
The blessings that seal the Hindu marriage
Wedding Readings and Prayers
Beautiful words to include in your ceremony
Wedding Inspiration
Tips for staying sane while planning your wedding
Written spiritual agreements to enhance your marriage
The bride and groom are the eternal lovers, helping us all believe in the power of a good relationship

Buddhist Wedding Readings

Buddhist Blessing
Do not deceive, do not despise each other anywhere. Do not be angry nor bear secret resentments; for as a mother will risk her life and watches over her child, so boundless be your love to all, so tender, kind and mild.

Cherish good will right and left, early and late, and without hindrance, without stint, be free of hate and envy, while standing and walking and sitting down, what ever you have in mind, the rule of life that is always best is to be loving-kind.

-- The Buddhist Scriptures, The Buddha’s Sermon at Rajagaha, Verses 19-22


I Bow Deeply
Standing quietly by the fence,
you smile your wondrous smile,
I am speechless,
and my senses are filled
By the sounds of your beautiful song,
Beginningless and endless.
I bow deeply to you.

- Thich Nhat Hanh

Buddhist Wedding Prayer
Today we promise to dedicate ourselves completely to each other, with body, speech, and mind.

In this life, in every situation, in wealth or poverty, in health or sickness, in happiness or difficulty, we will work to help each other perfectly.

The purpose of our relationship will be to attain enlightenment by perfecting our kindness and compassion toward all sentient beings.

- Lama Thubten Yeshe


A Blessing for The Journey (Buddhist Prayer)
Let us vow to bear witness to the wholeness of life,
realizing the completeness of each and every thing.
Embracing our differences,
I shall know myself as you,
and you as myself.
May we serve each other
for all our days,
here, there, and everywhere.
Let us vow to open ourselves to the abundance of life.
Freely giving and receiving, I shall care for you,
for the trees and stars,
as treasures of my very own.
May we be grateful
for all our days,
here, there, and everywhere.
Let us vow to forgive all hurt,
caused by ourselves and others,
and to never condone hurtful ways.
Being responsible for my actions,
I shall free myself and you.
Will you free me, too?
May we be kind
for all our days,
here, there, and everywhere.
Let us vow to remember that all that appears will disappear.
In the midst of uncertainty,
I shall sow love.
Here! Now! I call to you:
Let us together live
The Great Peace that we are.
May we give no fear
for all our days,
here, there, and everywhere.
-- Sensei Wendy Egyoku Nakao.